This study uses the object relations theory within the theoretical framework of psychoanalysis, to explicate
and investigate how the male protagonists in “The Waste Land” are faced with internal anxieties and
conflicts as they struggle perpetually to seek the idealized loved object, challenged by a lack of gratification
that is the result of their failure to establish healthy relationships with the female characters. Reading and
analyzing Eliot’s selected poem through the lens of the synthesized concepts of Melanie Klein and D. W.
Winnicott in the area of object relations theory, this paper provides a study which concentrates on the male
characters’ anxieties and disabilities in unifying their emotional relationships (good and bad, love and hate
feelings) with the female characters. In this study, the male characters’ internal anxieties and conflicts are
traced and related to their early inability in experiencing a well introjection of their primal loved object
(mother). This study presents a reading which attempts to explain why the male characters in the selected
poem constantly fail to successfully establish satisfactory relationships with the female characters and
abandon them in their perpetual search for the idealized loved object. Instead of directly applying
psychoanalysis, this study identifies the behavioral patterns and symptoms of these frustrated male
characters and seeks to find the causes within the psychoanalytic framework using object relation theory.
The study concludes that the male characters’ anxieties and conflicts, such as the state of being dependent,
and their inability and failure to achieve satisfactory emotional relationships with the female characters are
all the results of a past unsatisfactory mothering situation during their childhood. Hence, the male
characters, strive perpetually to relinquish and abandon the female characters and their whole life is an
endless search for their idealized loved object.